For starters, let me say, I dislike planning events. Surprise parties for 15, holiday parties for 30, dinner for 4 - no problem. A wedding for 75 - EW!
We have a venue, a caterer and a save the date design. I'm 90% sure I'm on track.
We are currently seeking an officiant. This is harder than it seems.
Things we aren't interested in having present at our ceremony:
Wedding Lassos (I shit you not, this exists)
People in white robes (I don't care if it's religious, it looks creepy)
How come everyone wants those things? Vomit.